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*This is a re-blog found it at I’m a full time mummy who found it at MamaKat’s and I thought it was worth sharing.*
Let me just screaming for a minute WHAT IN THE WORLD IS WRONG WITH OUR SOCIETY THIS DAY? What happen to family values? What happen to protecting our little girls? Aren’t they suppose to be into Disney princess, dolls and stuff animals?
I never knew the words of this song (or any song for that matter) but I thought the “put a ring on it” was kinda catchy I’d even hum it once or twice BUT 7 YEAR OLD SHACKING WHAT THEIR MAMA GAVE ‘EM THAT DISTURBING.
7 Year Old Girls Controversial Dance Routine
Posted May 17 2010 1:57pm
When Beyonce sings and dances to a song called Single Ladies it’s age appropriate and sends a message loud and clear that tells grown women if you’re not getting what you want out of a relationship, than move on.
When seven year old girls slap on satin and lace hooker outfits and dance to Single Ladies, takes on a whole new meaning.
“Up in the club, we just broke up
I’m doing my own little thing
you Decided to dip but now you wanna trip
Cuz another brother noticed me
I’m up on him, he up on me
dont pay him any attention
cuz i cried my tears, GAVE three good years
Ya can’t be mad at me”
Seven year old girls are not supposed to be gyrating and pelvic thrusting to songs about clubs and being up on anyone.
“Cuz if you liked it then you should have put a ring on it
If you liked it then you shoulda put a ring on it
Don’t be mad once you see that he want it
If you liked it then you shoulda put a ring on it”
Seven year old girls are not supposed to be shimmying about rings or who should and should not be putting one on them.
“I got gloss on my lips, a man on my hips
hold me tighter than my Dereon jeans
acting up, drink in my cup
I couldnt care less what you think
I need no permission, did I mention
Dont pay him any attention
Cuz you had your turn
But now you gonna learn
What it really feels like to miss me”
Seven year old girls are not supposed to be dressed provocatively while shaking their asses to songs about men “on their hips”, or tight jeans, or drinks, or making men miss them by moving on to other men.
“Don’t treat me to the things of this world
I’m not that kind of girl
Your love is what I prefer, what I deserve
Is a man that makes me, then takes me
And delivers me to a destiny, to infinity and beyond
Pull me into your arms
Say I’m the one you WANT
If you don’t, you’ll be alone
And like a ghost I’ll be gone”
Seven year old girls are supposed to “prefer” Disneyland and Pet Pals and Toy Story…not a man that takes her “to infinity and beyond”…unless we’re talking about Buzz Light Year. And that’s where I draw the line.
This is totally INAPPROPRIATE!
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If you have been reading my blog for a while you know by now that I have no problem with spanking little butts.
I have 2 little girls that I love with all my heart. They are my raison d’etre. I love and cherish these girls more than my 2 eyes but at the same time I discipline them, if its call for I pop little hands and legs.
I came across this article on Mom Logic and the writer swears that any kind of spanking in abuse.
Spanking is a very controversial subject and I can respect other people thoughts on it. If you choose to NOT spank you kids and have some other parenting methods that works for you then GREAT!
However, don’t tell me that I’m abusing my girls just because I choose to pop their little naughty butts.
I can not emphasize enough that spanking is NOT beating, Spanking is NOT bruising, Spanking is NOT Abusing.
Child abusers SHOULD go to jail! but parents who discipline in a proper way are NOT abusers.
I know their are people out there who just shouldn’t be parent period! They use their kids as punching bag to vent frustration and anger and call it spanking, which is probably why some others just see spanking as an evil acts.
In my opinion a parent should NOT discipline a child if you are angry and frustrated better yet you shouldn’t do anything while you angry or frustrated. Its like driving under the influence.
Spanking is discipline, Some kids may not need to be spank while some others do depend on their personality.
In my opinion, I think it is more dangerous for a child to be under the watch of someone who claim that spanking is abuse, because they don’t believe in spanking so when little boogers start to throw naughty fits they don’t know how to handle it – they respond in frustration and anger and start smashing heads. All I say is poor little kid and SMH!
DO you see spanking as abuse? why? or why NOT
Feel free to disagree, I won’t spank you *wink*
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Posted in Family | Tags: Corporal punishment, raising kids, spanking, spanking kids, spanking vs abuse | 
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We all heard of that word overprotective, so now how protective is consider being over protective? Ever since I found out I was pregnant I shield my babies. I take my giant prenatal pill every morning even though I totally HATE pills, I eat green stuff, I trade over a box of chocolate breakfast for avocados, bananas, apples good stuff breakfast, just so my baby could get good nutrients. When they were ready to be born I wouldn’t get any drugs for the pain, I skip the epidural and tough it out so they wouldn’t come out drowsy, when they were finally here I make sure they that weren’t out of my sight for a second so they wouldn’t get traded with other babies HA! coockoo I watch tv ok? I breastfeed them so they could be healthy and strong. I protect my kids. In spite all of that, there’s only so much a supermom can do. The first time Kailee fail right under my eyes, got a big shiner under her eyes. I feel like I was going to die. Her bruise took two weeks to heal; it took me two weeks to stop crying about it. Now that she is sliding head down, down the stair, jump off the bed climb everywhere and my Kaylee now climb on a toy stroller to reach my dresser. The other day Kailee 2yr old stuff Kaylee 1yr(with her consent of course) in a laundry basket and slide her down the stairs. Now what a supermom to do? and I thought that I wouldn’t have to deal with those daredevil trick since I have girls… was I wrong or was I wrong?
What crazy daredevil things your kids do?
I’m a supermom and that’s my kryptonite
Later folks,
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Early Spankings Make for Aggressive Toddlers, Study Shows
I came across this article about a study who claimed that spanking makes kids aggressive and lower their IQ.
say what?
At the risk of sounding totally judgmental and bias I’m gonna say that is complete bologna! These studies usually study about 100 families at the time (I’m not so sure) So I’m gonna present my own study on about the same number.
I went to super ultra strict all girls catholic school, where we study latin, greek, memorize chapters of history and social sciences, math, physics and chemistry. Failure “to know your stuff” usually guarantee you a trip to sister Exume’s office for a skirt holding spanking. Although taking this trip down memory lane kinda make me slightly angry and wanna pull sister Exume’s wig out… (I never did) I’m in no way Aggressive! All the girl from my promotion are Doctors, Lawyers, Computer engineers, Nurses, Teachers… strong smart women. When we occasionally meet or facebook we hardly recall the spankings but all the good time and fun we’ve had in school.
My point is our IQ’s didn’t drop we grew up to be smart successful women.
That was just spanking at school… Now at home: although my mom had master “the look” (you know the one that goes “boy you gonna get IT”)to a point that she didn’t even need to spank anymore. Occasionally someone would get out of line and get spank. I got spank a number of time, My sister got spanked quite a lot, and my brother got spanked a whole lot. He is Electrical engineer graduate top in his call they even ran out A’s to give him. Great kid! never got him trouble or anything. My sister’s a Nurse smart successful woman also, and I am a computer engineer, happy, never been to a shrink chair nor plan to. We never got in a fight or behave anywhere aggressively. Once in a while I have to call on Jesus to help not pull someone wigs out… but who hasn’t? especially when someone walk up to me and told me my cute little baby was too FAT and I need to put her on a diet pfft!
(If you get a beat down it has nothing to do with me being spanked as a child) So my study totally contradict their study. I wonder what exactly they mean by “spanking”?
Spanking is NOT ABUSE! it’s not smashing heads and beating like they just stole from the king. The Bible say “spare the rods spoil the child” and turn around and said “do not irritate your child” so IMO spanking is not something you do out of anger, you don’t just lashed out on your kids like you crazy. Spanking is correcting with love and patience, not pounding on a child like a boxing bag. I’m pretty sure if we compare their idea of spanking and what I know we could probably agree on something… Anyway I know this is a sensitive subject so what do you think? were you spanked as a child? do you think it has affect you in any way? Do you spank your own kids? The floor is yours ladies!
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I have always been a big fan of “spare the rod spoil the child” meaning I don’t mind popping little legs once in a while. I got spanked, my sister got spanked, my brother got spanked and we all turn out okay, we are all good Christians, 2 engineer and a nurse. For any parent that’s a good turn out, none of us ended on shrink couch. Okay now that I’m done proving my point SPANKING DOES NOT HURT! Here is my dilemma: My one year old is copying things I do. She is very mischievous, so I pop her little hand here and there, now she tend to pop other people hands when she want her way. How do I teach her its okay for me to pop her, but its not okay for her to pop other people?
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