Posts Tagged ‘life after kids’

This year at WOW women conference we had a panel of amazing women answering various question from finance, to budgeting, marriage, health almost everything were asked. One of the question that was ask to the panel about relationship was as follow: “I’m trying to save my marriage but my husband is not attracted to me anymore, what can I do if he is not interested?” Oh my I said in my head, that’s a biggy! then I start having this whole conversation with myself in my head…”How dare you NOT attracted to your wife you mean husband? Poor lady! well get your self some Mary Kay, get your hair done, go shopping DO SOMETHING!” Ok so I had to get out my head eventually and I start asking my hubby (like it was his fault) how can you men be so shallow? this poor lady said this and that it was horrible! So it *side eye* me and said: “We’re not shallow! unless homegirl is really super jacked up, it’s just a symptom. They have other issues and is just a symptom” uh-huh! He actually make sense. I think back something I pick an argument about something and it’s totally irrelevant I may be mad about something totally different. I just hate to see marriage going down the drain like that I just wish there was something I could do to help.
You ladies have any insight or experience to answer the above question? The floor is yours!

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When we first got married we pretty much had no furniture, we had a giant TV and one white lawn chair. A few months later when our stuff start coming in we had a different project every week and pretty much lives in home depot. When we were done (sigh) it was like one of those HGTV house. We had a contemporary style living inspired by the beautiful south beach hotel we stayed in. Too bad I don’t have a picture to show you so you have to close your eyes and imagine the quietness and gorgeousness of this well kept and clean living area. Until now a 2 year and a 10months old later that’s my life after kids!
I call this one Clean war zone

And this is just a war zone

The funny thing is I don’t miss my HGTV house… Yeah I do… LOL… stop lying Well yea I miss it every night when I have to pick all this stuff up but we make up for it in hugs and kisses.

How is your home different from before you had kids? (besides the obvious of course)

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SuperMomPlace.com: I blog about faith, family, kids, hair, being a mom, my ever changing hobbies and other things that cross my mind. What did you think of my blog? Thank you for your comments! I appreciate all your tips, advice, and well wishes!
Connect with me on twitter @supermomplace and Facebook if this is your first visit grab the rss feed
Love Roodlyne